The Chesed (Loving-Kindness) Committee is responsible for providing support to members in the event of a birth or adoption, illness, death, or other significant life change. We can prepare and deliver meals, grocery shop, provide transportation to or from a medical appointment/treatment, and and visit someone who is ill.
If you have a chesed need, please contact the Chesed Coordinators, Dianne Lior and Elaine Landes at chesed [at] dorsheitzedek.org.
Lotsa Helping Hands
To coordinate the community’s chesed needs, we are using the Lotsa Helping Hands website at www.lotsahelpinghands.com/c/625130.
We ask that all Dorshei Tzedek members create a login to Lotsa Helping Hands by clicking on this link. Please fill out the right-hand side of the form where it says ‘Interested in becoming a member of this community?’. Click on ‘Continue’ and then ‘Send Email’ on the next page. Once a chesed coordinator approves your request, you will receive an email with instructions for signing in. Thank you for taking the time to be involved with chesed.
If you have any problems or questions, please contact chesed [at] dorsheitzedek.org.
These articles describe the feelings that sometimes get in the way of participating in Chesed, as a giver and as a receiver. We encourage you to read these articles as part of our ongoing effort to build connections for a caring community. We hope these articles will inspire you to participate in Chesed.
A Small Pot of Violets
“We’ve all felt it; that moment’s hesitation before we ring the bell. Here’s why you need to do it anyway, ” writes Dorshei Tzedek member Nancy Gertz. (LivFun, page 30, Autumn, 2015)
How Not to Say the Wrong Thing
One of the barriers to participating in Chesed is the feeling that we don’t know what to say or we fear that we might say the wrong thing. A couple of years ago we shared this article by Susan Silk and Barry Goldman (Los Angeles Times, April 7, 2013). “It works in all kinds of crises – medical, legal, even existential. It’s the ‘Ring Theory’ of kvetching. The first rule is comfort in, dump out.”
Accepting Meals from Strangers as Caregivers
Linda Matchan describes how a health crisis brings donations of food that teach humility and gratitude — and provides a lesson for those who want to help others. (Boston Globe, March 25, 2014)
Dorshei Tzedek has produced a brochure (available here) about Jewish mourning practices and resources at CDT and in the local community.
Avelut is CDT’s member-led group dedicated to supporting avelim (mourners). Any adult CDT member who is dealing with a personal loss (family, friend, partner, other) or observing the Yahrzeit of a loved one is welcome. A CDT member does not need to be in the official mourning period to attend. The Avelut group is a time to talk about the impact of loss, the journey of bereavement, and the legacies of loved ones we carry with us. For more information, please contact avelut [at] dorsheitzedek.org.